Please say I am Triumphant

Some few days ago I read this in an article “the man who wins is the man who thinks he can”. In this world some people think they can do nothing, they are failure. More other people than them think not only they but also other people failure too. But, in this life success and failure can not be calculated separately. Someone may be successful in professional life but at the same time great failure in conjugal life. On the other hand some one got huge expected happiness in family life but full failure in work life. Moreover general people think success means high rank job, huge money, land property & personal car, beautiful wife, fame and prestige- these are some elements of success not mandatory condition.

Success not only depends on one feature or virtue. It’s depending on many virtues. Even success not depend on any definition, it depend on man’s mental satisfaction. If you think yourself successful then you success, if you think you are failure then you failure.

Who became able to collect half glass water, his success depends on how he describes it. If he says the glass’s half filled up then he success. Because it’s his a positive mind identity. Half glass is better than totally blank glass.

If he says the glass is half blank then he failure. Because he thinks himself failure for cant fulfills full glass. For that his mind became frustrated. He is giving curse to his fortune.

The farmer, who produce vast crop, is not successful? The typist, who can type very speedily, is not successful? Emerson says “if a man writes a better book, preaches a better sermon or makes a better mousetrap than his neighbor though he builds his house in the woods the world will make a beaten path to his door”. So so-called definition of success has to be thrown to dustbin and new definition has to be evaluated. Land property- personal car, fame, hill of money, alcohol or to gain beautiful girl friend is not success. Promotion in office or to treat subordinate as servant is not success. There is no reason to think only qualified people sit on big post or to be selected as authority or minister or big business man. Such as Gresham’s law is black money all time removed white money.

The successful man he, who not creator, not great personality, not pious man, has strong character, only a full real human being. He is successful who stick on his responsibility, positive about his quality and makes his personal expertness by hard working in spit of born without any intellect. He is successful whose studies not stop at the end of university education and running till his death. No authority gives him promotion because he himself gives him promotion.

He personally counted how long he traveled in his life. Because he believes this travel is his success.

Some learning guidelines for Success

Time management
Time management is most important for any success, especially for study. At first whole time should be divided into some segment which not only assists us with planning and time management, it can help us maintain our attention and best focus on topics. Each segment should be allocated for a target- come to an end of a text chapter. If we can do that then we will be motivated by accomplishment of specific goal.
Study in daytime
It is seems that concentration is more working in daytime than night. It is also depends on man’s mentality. That means it vary from man to man. According to many experts opinion one hour study during the day is same to be equivalent to one and half hour study at night. Overall personal concentration is more important here. So it should be decided as per our capacity, when we can concentrate our mind best.
Make study groups
Group study is very effective. It can be formed by friends, classmates or members. Many heads are better than one. We can help each other with questions or problems.  By sharing notes and comparing ideas we can clear our personal concept. Studying in groups make us cheer up and help us to avoid boringness. 
Necessary Activities in class
If we do some necessary activities in class then we can minimize after class study times:

• Get ready before class – do the compulsory pre-reading.
• Active listening – keep focused on what the teacher is saying and take notes.
• Raise questions – during class time it is very essential to ask question to make the topics clear.

Necessary Activities in home reading

• Profound reading is must for learner. It means to read every single word and re-read sections. It is useful for more complicated reading materials such as textbooks and articles.
• Skimming on total matter for a general idea saves time and helps to realize the matter in short.
• Understand the heading and subheading.
• Overview the total topics for main concept.
• Read the conceptual, end, or précis.
• At study time scanning method can be applied. Scanning is useful to get specific idea of matter.
• It should not to force ourselves to remember which we listen in class or read in home. If we be interested and curious in the subject, we’ll be more probable to naturally bring back what we need to bring to mind

What should do during exams
Proper preparation reduces stress. Below steps should be taken during exam times.

• Maintain adequate sleeping hours and eat healthy food. 
• Complete the entire syllabus before the starting of exam.
• Do the practice questions under time constraints so we’ll effectively monitor our answering time on the day.
• Answer the easy questions first; come back to the more difficult ones later.