Please say I am Triumphant

Some few days ago I read this in an article “the man who wins is the man who thinks he can”. In this world some people think they can do nothing, they are failure. More other people than them think not only they but also other people failure too. But, in this life success and failure can not be calculated separately. Someone may be successful in professional life but at the same time great failure in conjugal life. On the other hand some one got huge expected happiness in family life but full failure in work life. Moreover general people think success means high rank job, huge money, land property & personal car, beautiful wife, fame and prestige- these are some elements of success not mandatory condition.

Success not only depends on one feature or virtue. It’s depending on many virtues. Even success not depend on any definition, it depend on man’s mental satisfaction. If you think yourself successful then you success, if you think you are failure then you failure.

Who became able to collect half glass water, his success depends on how he describes it. If he says the glass’s half filled up then he success. Because it’s his a positive mind identity. Half glass is better than totally blank glass.

If he says the glass is half blank then he failure. Because he thinks himself failure for cant fulfills full glass. For that his mind became frustrated. He is giving curse to his fortune.

The farmer, who produce vast crop, is not successful? The typist, who can type very speedily, is not successful? Emerson says “if a man writes a better book, preaches a better sermon or makes a better mousetrap than his neighbor though he builds his house in the woods the world will make a beaten path to his door”. So so-called definition of success has to be thrown to dustbin and new definition has to be evaluated. Land property- personal car, fame, hill of money, alcohol or to gain beautiful girl friend is not success. Promotion in office or to treat subordinate as servant is not success. There is no reason to think only qualified people sit on big post or to be selected as authority or minister or big business man. Such as Gresham’s law is black money all time removed white money.

The successful man he, who not creator, not great personality, not pious man, has strong character, only a full real human being. He is successful who stick on his responsibility, positive about his quality and makes his personal expertness by hard working in spit of born without any intellect. He is successful whose studies not stop at the end of university education and running till his death. No authority gives him promotion because he himself gives him promotion.

He personally counted how long he traveled in his life. Because he believes this travel is his success.

Some learning guidelines for Success

Time management
Time management is most important for any success, especially for study. At first whole time should be divided into some segment which not only assists us with planning and time management, it can help us maintain our attention and best focus on topics. Each segment should be allocated for a target- come to an end of a text chapter. If we can do that then we will be motivated by accomplishment of specific goal.
Study in daytime
It is seems that concentration is more working in daytime than night. It is also depends on man’s mentality. That means it vary from man to man. According to many experts opinion one hour study during the day is same to be equivalent to one and half hour study at night. Overall personal concentration is more important here. So it should be decided as per our capacity, when we can concentrate our mind best.
Make study groups
Group study is very effective. It can be formed by friends, classmates or members. Many heads are better than one. We can help each other with questions or problems.  By sharing notes and comparing ideas we can clear our personal concept. Studying in groups make us cheer up and help us to avoid boringness. 
Necessary Activities in class
If we do some necessary activities in class then we can minimize after class study times:

• Get ready before class – do the compulsory pre-reading.
• Active listening – keep focused on what the teacher is saying and take notes.
• Raise questions – during class time it is very essential to ask question to make the topics clear.

Necessary Activities in home reading

• Profound reading is must for learner. It means to read every single word and re-read sections. It is useful for more complicated reading materials such as textbooks and articles.
• Skimming on total matter for a general idea saves time and helps to realize the matter in short.
• Understand the heading and subheading.
• Overview the total topics for main concept.
• Read the conceptual, end, or précis.
• At study time scanning method can be applied. Scanning is useful to get specific idea of matter.
• It should not to force ourselves to remember which we listen in class or read in home. If we be interested and curious in the subject, we’ll be more probable to naturally bring back what we need to bring to mind

What should do during exams
Proper preparation reduces stress. Below steps should be taken during exam times.

• Maintain adequate sleeping hours and eat healthy food. 
• Complete the entire syllabus before the starting of exam.
• Do the practice questions under time constraints so we’ll effectively monitor our answering time on the day.
• Answer the easy questions first; come back to the more difficult ones later.

A Simple formula for Success

Life is like a Cafeteria. If we are ready to pay the value then we can get anything. Just need a mentality to do the right things at a right times.  It’s very simple. Not always easy, but simple. You can use these seven tips to turn your life into success.
Take a look on below 4 formulas:-

1. Identify your outcome and decide what you want.
2. Take action and determine to make a change.
3. Monitor the on going actions and stick on actions until you get the results you want.
4. Keep a success person ahead so that you can copy him.

Above those formulas is the way of success. Use it and make it a part of your problem solving and goal setting habits.

Many authors wrote this in different ways but all platforms are unique. I just quoted the summary which I got from many reputed success tips authors articles. 
Below the following 7 tips for success will enhance the above process.

Here are 7 Tips for Success

1.      Pay attention on small one before they become big.

Take care of small problem before they become big problems. When cancer builds home in any human body then it need to be diagnosed first after that treatment will be possible. But, if it becomes too late then big treatment can not make it cure. Don’t ignore the little stuff. If we do, it will build up and we’ll blow up. Orchid should be cut before it spread every where. 

2.      Present is all.

In meditation one of major rule to keep mind in present. To say I am in present when reach at Alfa level an important part of meditation. It means if human being can keep him/herself in present then any exceptional thing can be done by him/her. Past make us frustrated and Future makes us anxious. Situation need to be considered carefully and action need to be taken accordingly. 

3.      Remove unhappiness in work

Our life is complicated. We are all time going through a monotony situation. Most of us are tolerating every where which we dislike. Then what should we do now. We run away from the situation or to face it. It depends on us. If all time we feel our life is nothing it is right at the same it is also right our life is very special. Think positively, avoid unhappiness feelings can make our life pleasurable. All things are in our hand. Just we need to know the operating system. How we operate our life through a cheerful condition.

4.      Build Daily Routine.

Many times when we spent our time in holiday we have no plan or routine. But, if we can build a daily routine then many things can be done in a day. Especially for holiday we should maintain a strong routine. An overall circumstance is to use every moment to be successful. Choose some things to do daily that we can create habits around. The idea here is to pick things that inspire us, not things we "should" do. Replace any old bad habits with these instead. 

5.      Get the work finished before the time-line.

Daily we have many things need to be done. But, some times we feel not interest or disgusting to do that. If we maintain a simple formula then this situation we can simply avoid. Do the things first which is bore to us. If we can find out the pleasure in a task then we can easily do that. But, from the beginning if we experience it irk then it’s took more time. Result will be dullness. So we need to do the necessary things before the time limit.  

6.      Stop unnecessary run behind win. 

The less you run behind success, the more likely it is to come your way. To see dream is good habit but to feel heavy excitement is bad. To be success we need to be calm, determined and marksman. Unnecessary excitement creates anxiety, stress and tension. All time need to follow a goal with a proper plan through a strategic way.

7.      Just do it... now!

         Procrastination eats the pleasure of every work. Any work will be good if it is done without any  unnecessary interruption. So always try to finish work instant. We many times wait for model time but mind it if we not start then situation never be model. To be successful we need to make habit to do the task now.

What really leads to success

1. Passion
Sometimes it may be seems that we do things for nothing. Nothing we get for our all effort. On that time only passion can move us. If we love our work then we should do without any expectation to get somethings. Overall we need to do anything for love money comes anyway.

2. Hard Work
The road to success come through hard work.Hard work for them who need to be success.How much do we need to do depends on greatness of our dream.If we will learn to reflect a spirit of excellence in everything we do, the hard work will become second nature to us. Nothing comes easily.

3.Good
To be successful put your nose down in something and get damn good at it. So do Practice! Practice! and Practice!A best practice is a technique that has consistently shown results superior to those achieved with other means, and that is used as a benchmark.practices is a complicated and time-consuming process but to get good things it is must.

4. Focus
All has to do focusing yourself to one thing.

5. Push
Push yourself. Physically, mentally.You gotta push for shyness and self doubt. Give up the think--> I am not good enough, I am not smart enough. I can not do anything. Just PUSH PUSH PUSH.

6. Serve
Serve others. Money follow you.

7. Ideas
New idea can do many things.  Listen>Observe>Be curious>Ask Question>Problem Solve>Make Connections.

8. Persist
Persistence is the number one reason for success.